Lets try thing again!!!!

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Hi Sandi,

Thanks for checking in, haven't really been able to take a break, but we had a better weekend.
H and I did a conflict resoloution on Friday about what has happened, this is a skill taught through retrouville, it helped, we were able to get out what we needed to around the whole email.
He says he realizes that he needs to grow up, and will be making an appointment with C to help him sort it out.
He also says that he never had alot of intrest shown in him by ow and now that he has he easliy gets caught up in the attention.
He sais he knew as soon as he sent the emails it was wrong, and doesn't fully understand why he does it.
We then dialogued last night about decision making, and I was able to tell him I find it hard to make decisions now because I have to worry that if I do something he doesn't like then he will go off and do something. He realizes that he has not decision making skills, he can do it no problem for work things, but when it comes to home its a whole different story.
I got alittle upset last night, basically I told him I just can't continue to do this, and be hurt in this way.
I am hanging on by a thread and things have to improve or there is just no point.
He said he loves me, and doesn't want someone else, that he get all he needs from me, and knows he needs help to sort this out, so hopefully he will seek help and really work on it.

I am going out with a cousin tomorrow, if haven't seen her in a long time, but think I can talk to her about things...but will just have to play it by ear.

So he is still here and saying he is willing, but its hard because I have heard this so many times before...he has locked up his email and other accounts, I haven't asked and he hasn't offered to unlock so I will have to play this one by ear also!