Time for healing without closing the door

[SallyM]

I think a lot of what roe_zee says makes sense. it goes along with the book I'm reading...its all about having a goal for a conversation, keeping your focus, and acheiving your goal while being respectful to the other person.

I agree, that if this is what you want, then this is a good way to start getting it. just try to keep your focus on what you want to accomplish, and try not to get caught up in personal attacks and such.