22 years and no communication

[Goingdownhill]

Thanks Cat! That is good advice. I do see a ton of wisdom. Its more than a gripe session too. There are lots of real people here it seems working on real problems that are similar to mine. So I know I'm here to stay.

I will look for a nonsecular C. Your absolutely right when you say he won't. I know that. Which is exactly why I left the ball in his court? Maybe the wrong thing to do if I want to fix this M.

I'm going to start to look this week.