Hey Nomo - Stopping by to say hi. You were kind enough to help welcome me in July when I was a newcomer.

I'm also in a two-professional marriage so I can relate to the pressures. Add kids to that and it's a wonder anyone can stay together.

I think your letting go is definitely the right thing. I'm reminded of the "see-saw effect" in DR. When your W sees that you're no longer working on the M, the void may make her think. R's, like nature, abhors a vacuum. If she doesn't respond, at least you can concentrate on yourself more.

Regards,
LL


M 63
W 40
M 4/91
S14/D9
bomb 7/6/07
D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08
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