Hey Nomo - Stopping by to say hi. You were kind enough to help welcome me in July when I was a newcomer.
I'm also in a two-professional marriage so I can relate to the pressures. Add kids to that and it's a wonder anyone can stay together.
I think your letting go is definitely the right thing. I'm reminded of the "see-saw effect" in DR. When your W sees that you're no longer working on the M, the void may make her think. R's, like nature, abhors a vacuum. If she doesn't respond, at least you can concentrate on yourself more.
Regards, LL
M 63 W 40 M 4/91 S14/D9 bomb 7/6/07 D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08 thread