I hate OM being around DD, but it is beyond my control. DD doesn't talk about him, but says that he is mummy's boyfriend, so I am thankful that W does not hold hands or kiss in front of her.
I hate DD being involved in all this. She is doing so well at school, and is so happy and pleasant, but I can see that it is affecting her. My mother told me that when DD slept over there a few weeks ago, she told my mother how she was "embarrassed" about everything that is happening. I feel so sorry for her that she feels this way at school and when she visits relatives.
I would have been a little happier if the scumbag at least got her a gift, the tight arse.
I just hope that he is not hanging around long enough for W to look after him after settlement. He loves my W's car (new V8 Statesman), loves the fact that we have a huge home (settlement wise), and enjoys her paying for everything. I know it is not my money, but it really pisses me off.
She still hasn't given me her new mobile number, after several weeks, but I have not asked for it. I told her to txt it to my mobile when she had time.
I haven't called my SIL (she asked me to call her because she had some interesting news, good news after she and W had a long chat at the birthday party). But I am going to resist, as blood is thicker than water, and everything I discussed in the past always got back to W, so I will not go there.