ILY's & ML...no fights..this is a strange S! Help!

[nephartiti]

Hi, Ginger. I just caught up. It sounds like you an H are making good progress. I know it is frustrating and scary when you have put so much into it and they seem to just want to slip in. It's all about YOUR issues, right?

I think the list is a good idea. I would try to limit it to the ones that are really important to you so that he doesn't get too overwhelmed. This is a starting point. Marriage is a work in progress. Let him know that you will both have to revamp things from time to time.