your C was right about telling yourself sometimes H is unfair. And I think what you said "Wow, I have no memory of that. I'm sorry if that caused some awkwardness for you" was that bad. You didn't actually specifically appologize for "not remembering" and that it was your fault. it's sounded more like you were sympathizing with him. And, you didn't accuse him or fight him on who was right either, which I think was a good thing, cause it really doesn't matter.

Very glad that you have things lined up for you to do, and the new group activity.

"I think I'll start by focusing on not appearing affected."
I think that's a great place to start.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."