There and Back #11

[mkultra]

It is a very big deal in our neck of the woods. It is the cutest thing when they start to wiggle! Toothless grins, tooth fairy, tooth pillow. Awesome. He is such a cutie pie. Good thing he had his formal pics before the tooth falls out. Then you can have another pic after!

Thanks for the reminder Mark! It is great to hear a "geek" Dad tell it like it is!

I ma telling you if you want to see a heartwarming movie where all aspects of a marriage are explored see Paris, Je'taime. OMG it is so cool to see Gina Rowland act shocked to hear that her separated husband is trying to have a baby with his new mistress.....at the age of 60something!!!! She says, "She knows we already have grandchildren together?" It is alos fun to see a couple try to save their marriage by pretending to meet as strangers in a strip club. Another vignette shows a cheating husband on his way to break up with his wife when she interupts his speech to announce her cancer scare. he dumps his mistress on a text and devotes the rest of his life to his dying wife. The narrator says, "In acting like a man in love for his dying wife, he became a man in love with his wife." Then she dies and he is so lonely without her that everywhere he goes he thinks he sees her.


That is what happens. We choose. Love and passion are not accidntal at all. It is in our brain. It is a choice. A commitment. The fact is we can pretend to be in love or pretend to be happy and then we begin to believe it. unfortunately, our spouses who are having affairs tooke some crazy love potion and instead of seeing us first they laid their eyes on someone else because they felt betrayed first. They feel so lost and wounded they cannot even trust themselves. What else can we do but GAL and detach?