Well, actually I was not really encouraging you, but just telling it like I saw it.
Those on line games....I did not realize that she had gotten off into an EA on line. Gee, that is how it started for me was chatting while playing those games. Let that be a warning to others that may read this.....it can be a snare.
As far as the two of you having sex....still....you sly dog...I should have known there was some reason that you were hanging in there. The kids, my eye! And, yes my kids saw us over the years go through difficult times....they may not have known the problems, but they knew there were times that I was not happy. In fact they both made the statement a few years ago that when they were growing up that they did not think we loved each other. That was distrubing. I thought, "So, I have stayed in this all these years, for this?" So, the kids could detect something a long time ago. We just thought we were keeping it covered up.
Anyway, it is your life and it's up to you to decide how long you want to carry the tourch. I just don't think I could live like that.....sex or no sex. In fact.....well, no point of going down that tunnel....obviously nobody apparently agrees with me about that.....but I still wouldn't do it. But tell me something. How can you make love to somebody knowing how they feel about you? Doesn't it bother you? That's what I don't get about some of the wives. Their H's are sleeping with OW and yet they continue to have sex with them. Oh well......
Well, hope you find something interesting to do this week. Have any ideas?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
