Originally Posted By: PennyMB
ONe thing I do have is a great bunch of friends and some of them are actually my H family.


I am keeping up with H's family, too, although things have changed since H's ow is BIL's friend. SIL still keeps in touch, but she has gotten "colder" this past month. I think they do things as couples with H and ow now so it's probably more uncomfortable being around me. (at the beginning they were not condoning that relationship and refused to do anything with H if he was with ow for respect for me). Guess they are accepting it now! \:\(

I just returned home froom taking my MIL out for dinner. H would NEVER think of doing that! MIL is also expecting ME to cook Thanksgiving dinner for her and out of town relatives. Tonight she was concerned whether H would be there. She said it just wouldn't feel right if he wasn't there. CRAZY!!! (I will invite him, of course, but MIL isn't that a wierd thing to say to me?)

Penny, thanks for letting me vent here. Guess I should start another thread instead of hijacking yours! ;\)
Matilda