H has left have I Done the right thing

[Evie]

Just returned from my week away so back in the world of civilisation!!

Plenty of time on my own to reflect or analyse...

H phoned everyday I was away to speak to me and the boys, I made sure I sounded upbeat and happy (which I was I was), I've taken plenty of pictures which H has seen how much fun we had.

I don't feel desparately unhappy with the current situation, my H worked such long odd hours that in a way he is the one that is having to consider his responsibilities to the boys/family a bit more. H took my D shopping yesterday as promised to get some gear for her 6 months abroad, and they seemed to have had a really good morning.

We do need more communication about arrangements for the boys, but i'm sure that will either fall into place to suit both of us, but i'm not sure how to re-connect with H and move conversation onto more interesting subjects rather than work and children. I'm the person he still calls first when there is a problem at work or he had a problem with my car on the motorway and he called me straight away..... It seems he has moved out physically but maybe not emotionally?? I read another post that said that while they are still interested in you and the family and doing some things together, keep inviting him in, if he hesitates then back of a little, which I think is sound advice?


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