Snodderly - When he had a brief moment of rationality just over a year ago, I tried to point out that there was more to any relationship than sex, particularly in a long relationship.
I wasn't denying the importance of sex, but he seemed to have the feeling that it was the be all and end all of life. Just pre-bomb he became very rough and impatient in lovemaking - not at all like him. . . He also wanted me to hurt him during lovemaking, which I felt very uncomfortable about. I gather from things that he has hinted that the OW is prepard to do this. There is definitely a 'kinky' element in their relationship.
It has been said that the sexual rush acts as an anti-depressant . . .
