SH, I would say the same--I admire Crushee from afar but I leave it at that. I think Crushee also recognizes the situation as risky. That said, it's not easy to deal with it. It would be easier if I didn't see him as frequently as I do (we work together).
I think I need a break from H altogether, to be honest. I am starting to think that this is what real detachment is about. I want to cancel the mediation session next week. What is the point?
Seeming as if H is likely to spend Tgiving w/OW. If he doesn't want D2 on that day (and I'd be surprised if he does), I am going to take her to my family's home where she can have a real Thanksgiving dinner with family and other children in particular. Plus I'll have a nicer Thanksgiving, too.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
