Originally Posted By: Jeff223
I feel for former W but I am still shut out. Her choice and I cannot control that.

So I listen. That is the best I can do to support her. And she knows the kids are secure with me.


What a change in your outlook. You are doing so much better.

She gets into the 'anger' part because she sees herself 'needing' you and that was one of her biggest issues.

You know it's all about her and she's reaching out to you in a time of need, but doesn't want to 'go there' again.

As long as you don't react, and keep treating her with kindness, it'll be interesting to see how she changes.

Remember, when you change everyone around you must change also.

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