The other night when he called we were making rainbow cookies for his birthday. D6 spelled out WE HEART U DADDY! in rainbow M&Ms. My S2 was eating some left over candies and my H started scolding them sayig , Why does your mother have you up this late? ( Why did he call that late?) Eating candy past 9! That is very bad for you!" I knew that was a slight on my parentig. He is horrible.
This part makes me soooo angry at your H. How dare he attack you and your parenting?? He is very far gone, mk, very far gone. I feel bad for him, he can't go anywhere but further down. And where will it stop? I am so sorry he is that way towards you but its not him. Your H wouldn't do that. This man in the midst of depression/MLC/blindness is the one doing it. Now, whether your (or mine, or any of ours) husband returns, only time will tell.
PS: Isn't that the way? A year ago your H would think it was adorable to decorate a cookie like that, and to see S2 sneak some candy. Now its a point of nastiness to use against you.
