Your wife. Your wife. Oh your wife. I think she gets the award from DB for the person to rewrite the most history, and to place the most blame on one person. How frustrating is it when she dismisses OM but yet is planning a future with him. Oh that makes me sooo mad for you.

The fact that she is using your love as a father against you is just pure evil. Of course, you don't want to do anything to hurt your sons. And for the record, you did the absolute right thing when you straightened the facts out for your son. I think you are right, that you might have to continue these painful sessions with your W, for your son's sake. If you can eek even one helpful thing out for his benefit, it will be worth it.

My hat off to you. You amaze me.