I love the way you write, my man. You have humor yet convey the hardship you are going through. Amazing.
I can't believe your wife thinks its appropriate to have the girls spend the night around OM!! I can totally see my H doing this, but he can't because OW is married with kids the same ages. He would justify it as a big sleepover. Gross, barfy, blecky!!! Its just so wrong. You are a stronger person than I, I would have gone OFF had I found that out. You were calm and tried to rationalize with the alien. Tried to get her to see:
putting kids in uncomfortable positions = acting out
DER!!!
I am so sorry about the stand up too, what is up with that??? Cougars are older women right? I am a cougar, I am 36. lol It was good they fought over you but glad you ran.
