You are kind of already doing that bying going to the GAL event remember? There were men there you did not sexualize, unless you are hiding something from us! Just kidding. But I think it was best you told the truth. I actually feel proud that I am home alone on my off nights making popcorn and hanging out with my brother and our kids. His loss.
I agree with Neph, that even thouh that convo took place nothing has changed. It is just as if the first bomb happened again. You were strong enough to pick up DB from the get go. You can continue with DBing. Nothing has changed. He is under pressure. That is good. There should be pressure put upon an affair.
You will be happy again with or without him. It can go either way. He leaves for a long time and you move on with your integrity knowing you did everything for a brighter future. Or he comes home quietly sooner than later because he misses you and the kids. Either way, we both need to get out there, IMHO. We can double date. I am scared too but we will get there.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
