Hmmm, I do not know about that. My H grew up with a great Dad and basicaly speaks to me the same way. I think he is just a classic WAS, MLC, cheat. Remember those stages of infidelity? First there was demonizing. How they do that to the spouse. Then rewriting history. They base the history on their current feelings. Then Pushing Away. They can use finances or even cruelty to get us to stop loving them or waiting. Horrible Stage Four is Seeking Approval. This can even be by reaching out to family, Acting As If, even sex. Last Stage is Rebuilding. The let's get all the kids together and sing kumbaya.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
