There and Back #11

[nephartiti]

Let me see if I understand this. Your H wanted sympathy for his dream, but then he went and said that about your dream?!!!? Just when I think I've heard everything I possibly could from your H, he always goes one step further.

Saffie is right. He is a glove puppet. Didn't he thank you for not filing a few weeks ago because he wasn't sure it was what he wanted? He doesn't know whether he is coming or going. I'm sure OW has started putting some serious pressure on. Maybe she found out about your sexual encounter with your H.

I agree with Dom on the dad thing. It kind of makes sense. Plus, add in OW's perspective as a divorcee and this is buiness as usual-just the way things go. Sick. I'm so sorry.

Your kids are so lucky that you are their mother. I know you will do whatever it takes to minimize their hurt as much as possible. Once he has what he is asking for, he will realize that it is not the answer to his problems like he thinks it is.