Thanks lwb. She is a little spitfire - her face was a picture when she thought OW thought she had apologised!!! Actually that daughter's BF lives around the corner from OW's parents and I did wonder what would happen if she bumped into OW dropping off or picking kids up. She has never mentioned it happeneing but I bet sparks would have flown. Generally she is a very kind and loving kid but she got very defensive about what her father did. With my kids being that bit older I had to work very hard to not let my hurt make them dislike their dad. The older three were great alies though. They watched my back even though they love their dad very much.

My son, (who is 12 coming up to 13), has never talked much about what happened but if I look sad he will always come up and give me a quiet hug. Yep Yoyo, he's the sweaty hampster one, but he has started showering a lot more recently!!!! I wonder if there is a young lady he likes ;\)

saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength