BTW: IF you're going to go dark on him, deliberately.. i think it's important to let him know why.

In other words, to make it clear to him that you are not talking to him becuase you care about him and he is hurting you, rather than that you arent talking to him becuase you dont care about him.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle