My H exposed three of my 4 kids to OW before it came out about the A. I was livid but it turned out to be a big part of their downfall. My second D who was 13 at the time, phoned OW without H and I knowing and told her exactly what she thought of her. OW called my H shocked to tell him. My D then called her back and left a message on OW's answer phone that OW couldn't understand as my D was crying so much. She then phoned my H and told him that my D had called again and she couldn't understand it but as she assumed it was an apology for what my d had said earlier to tell my D thank you. WTF!!!!! D got really mad then and left another message that OW could not not understand. I think at that point it dawned on OW that trying to move into my shoes would not be very easy as my children would NEVER accept her. Her children were younger and obviously had not voiced an opinion about the fact that their mother had deserted them to try and get with her boss!!!

saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength