I am posting what I think is more 'good' news for me, or at least confirmation that affair with OW is burning out. Yesterday H and I drove D to a friends house. A 20 minute drive. OW called during the trip and H's cell phone went dead. Apparently the conversation wasn't going well to start with but when he lost the call he was not happy.
He said great, she's going to think I hung up on her. I offered him the use of my cell phone to call her (why, I don't know!). He said 'that will go over like a fart in church.'
I made some comment about what sort of grief he was going to get when he called her back and he said, very gravely "YOU HAVE NO IDEA."
She actually stopped by the house briefly just a bit later to get something my H printed out for her (another excuse to see him). I was helping my H change a headlight in my car when she pulled into the driveway. I almost went in the house. Then I thought, F it, this is my house, he is my H. Let her see me and my H together. Let her think about the fact that I am here with him and she is not. (I'm usually not a vindictive person, but OW really pulls strings I never knew I had in me.)
I hope she b*tched and griped all she wanted because the rest of the night was great for us. We made mudslides, popcorn, watched a movie and had spent 'time alone' while D was out of the house.
I'm feeling pretty good this morning. Hope everyone else is doing ok today, too.