In a weird way, I'm starting to believe his "Pushing" you is perhaps a (I'm going out on a weak limb here" is a cry for help?
I am kind of in agreement on this too. I think that maybe my H may be doing this too. What I don't know is "how" we can help them. It seems like what ever I do it just pushes him to her. Maybe he is wanting help from me to break free from his old life.??
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!