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In a weird way, I'm starting to believe his "Pushing" you is perhaps a (I'm going out on a weak limb here" is a cry for help?


I am kind of in agreement on this too. I think that maybe my H may be doing this too. What I don't know is "how" we can help them. It seems like what ever I do it just pushes him to her. Maybe he is wanting help from me to break free from his old life.??


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!