okay, keep remembering my favorite lines from last night...he said (and I'm not kidding) that this all sucks much more for him than it does for me.
Of course he thinks that. Most LBS' do. He HAD to move out of the house, he has guilt for doing this to your kids (and most likely you too), he knows he f'd up big time. He thinks your sitting at home, watching the kids and though hurt, your life hasn't changed much. Yeah, I've heard the same spew. They'll justify what they are doing and how they feel with whatever they can. He is hurting but there is nothing you can do to help him. It is sort of a catch 22 because your damned if you do and damned if you don't. Walking the line between the two is tough. Focus on what YOU need and doing what is right for the kids.
Hope the drop off with the kids goes without incident.
Me: 41 H: 42 Married: 13Y, together 24 Kids: S11, S9, D6 Bomb: 7/11/06, now piecing
