Just found out that OW has a kid!!

[Ophelia]

Actually, googling the number was the first thing I did, but I came up empty.

I'm glad there are like minded folks on this forum, because in real life, I usually feel pretty lonely with all my (former?) friends not seeming to bat an eye at H's behaviour.

I sent H a txt on the day he was due back from Africa, just saying that I hope he got home safely. Didn't get a response.

I'm wondering if I'll get an email tomorrow when he gets back to work, and I'm also wondering if I should send him an email first instead of just waiting for him to send me one. And if I do send him one tonight, should I mention wanting to catch up in person again, like I did in the note I left in his Bon Voyage card? Maybe I should just let him write to me first. At least that way I'll know what frame of mind he's in before I say anything. I just don't want him thinking that I'm not interested after the not txting him to see how the mountain climb went. *tears out hair in frustration*

Gotta go buy him a birthday card tomorrow, (it's his 30th on the 31st).