About the girl at work...sigh...I wish I could dismiss it for you but with my OW, H totally stopped talking about her right about the time he knew it was getting inappropriate (I figured out the timing later, of course). And when I did see his phone, there were "*67's" everywhere. No need for that unless you are hiding something, you know? HUGS
Guts are usually right, which sucks, because my gut usually doesn't tell me anything good.
