I have certainly come round to the opinion that love is as much a choice as a feeling, assuming there was an inital attraction. I also believe that my W thinks that love is a feeling and that her love for me no longer feels right to her. I could counter this with love is a choice, but I feel that even if I did that her reply would be "ok, then you have to accept that it is my choice not to love you anymore".

I don't really know what to do about this. I feel so isolated and powerless. Why doesn't she love me anymore, what caused her to think that it no longer feels right? These are the answers I want and may never get.


Me 36
W 37
Bomb (Easter 07)
Sep (WAW July 07)
"It's over" (end Oct 07)
T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)