Interesting that all my anger has been directed at the ow instead of at my H. THe one counseling session I went to made me realize that. Guess that is easier than being mad at the person we have loved for so long!
I am exactly the same and have remained this way. For me, I guess, if I had directed more of my anger at my H I may have ended up hating him and then been unable to reconcile,. That said, OW in my case, was a mean coniving b!tch. She left her H AND children to try to get my H to leave me - what mother can do that!!! I can understand if the mother is being abused that she may need to make a hast exit but this OW was the main breadwinner in her house and totally in command there!!! Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
