The story is very true in my case...when the Seas of Guilt and Loss flooded in on H he nearly had a totaly mental breakdown...it was not a pretty sight... I understand how you feel about OM in R with your kids...I told H that my children would NEVER be in the same company as OW...I think he believed I could do that...this was a major part of their not being able to get on with getting married...you see she lived in another state and out youngest, S9 (at the time), would never be allowed to go there (so I had H convinced)...OW had custody issues that prevented her from leaving the state with her kids...so they were at a mutual STUCK...neither could move to be with other... This allowed The other seas, the Sea of Clarity and the Sea of Reality, to leak all over the Island of Adultery...things pretty much fell apart after enduring for 8 months or so...it then took another 2 years for H to "unlove" OW... Along the lines of custody...my brother was able to get 1/2...the judge basically said as long as she and OM didn't have sex in full view of the kids there was no crime!!!...I guess morality means nothing...his kids are now grown and although they love their mother they keep distance and refer to her as crazy...very sad...
So how was the air in SJC?...I am in the N.San Diego County...it was really really bad down here...still is...got woke up smelling smoke and not sure if it was a wind shift or if it is the marine layer holding it all down on us...Sea World was closed during some of this...good thing you made it on a good day... BTW...love your area...I go play there when I can..
