yep, he's delusional. he is. and his issues/our issues are exactly the same....but guessing they are moving toward the resolution he wants.
I just called to say hi to the kids and find out when he was bringing them home. he sounds angry...if possible, angrier than he was last night when he left. should make for an interesting drop off. going to have to stay on my toes to not allow myself to get baited.
I need to work on realizing divorce is very likley (if not impossible to avoid at this point) and I also have to get my ducks in a row about him introducing the kids to ow. I'm guessing he's going to fight a bit dirty now, and I'm guessing he's going to have them spending time together by the holidays. no doubt in my mind he'll go that route.
hate that my kids are being put in this position. but I won't make it harder on them. I will do all I can, if it does happen, to make it smooth for them, and make it okay. wow, that sucks. but it is what it is. I think its going to be hard on them no matter what. although maybe they will end up loving her, too. my kids are so sweet, maybe they will adjust quickly to daddy's new life. hurts me to think of it, but better than them being hurt. although I guess a part of me wishes it wouldn't be quite so easy for h.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
