Sorry you are having a rough night. It is almost 4 AM here. I am up from crazy H dreams too. They have a way of really getting in there don't they?
Your H sounds still very deep in his fog, but is still very much fog. He definitely doesn't live in reality. Well, not any healthy reality that I know. Obviously, it is his reality.
This is clearly about HIM. It is not about you or the children. This is HIS problem, and he is just doing his darndest to poin the finger at whom ever and what ever he can. He is unhealthy, but we have known that for a while, right.
I know yesterday was a doosey, but the core of the matter has not changed. Your H's issues are exactly the same as last week, last month, etc. He's simply traveling down the same road and finally reached a new landmark.
Please please please don't believe that this is about you or your children. He is DELUSIONAL.
(((HUGS)))
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
