oh you're up... lots of posting going on while I was typing. I just read the other things you posted that he said. The more I read what he said the more obvious it is that he is a very confused man. Sounds to me like he is trying to justify himself.
I for one am glad you told him you are not dating. I have never understood what purpose it serves to let the WAS think you are doing so.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011