CVA, I'm been gone for a while, and I come back and you are leaving what gives, Man?
Whether you want to admit it or not, you ARE a great person, I wouldn't be where I am today with out your advice, so please don't stop giving it, take a break if you have to, clear your head and then bring back the ol' confident and caring CVA, that we all know.
As far as figuring out women, all the books, all the articles, and all the research on the subject, will not help you, if you forget the most important thing, they are human! Prone to make mistakes, prone to change their minds, prone to completely throw us for a loop, just like we do to them. The man/woman relationship is too complicated to figure out, just try to be the best man that you can be, A great father, a good friend, and a caring and helpful voice to to rest of us, on the DB'ing bb. and let her be whatever kind of woman she wants to be. Sound familiar? You said something similar to me a while back, I now try to live it every day! Be confident, be strong, hold fast my friend to your faith, and remember that through God any thing is possible, Sometimes we have to hit the lowest lows, before we can climb up to the highest of highs. Start climbing my friend. Take care.
