Don't take his 'spew' to heart. He is looking for a means to justify what he is doing. I know what he has said about the children really hurts. It sounds to me like your H doesn't like not being the centre of attention. OW's child is not his responsibility even when it's around so he probably can try to ignore the child as much as possible.
At some point he is going to wake up and see what he has done. I just hope it's before he has alienated you and his children too far.
(((((((((HUS))))))))))
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
