Just got back from DD's birthday party. All went well. Everyone had a great time at the Wave pool.
Got to talking with BIL and both SIL's whilst at the party. Got some great PMA out of it.
BIL spoke about OM. When W brought him over to her parents place the other week. W's parents, both my SIL's, and both BIL's all dislike him. They all think he is a loser, and cannot understand how W could be with him.
The dad even told W not to bring him to his 60th birthday party. MIL told my BIL that eventhough she is pushing 60, she would not even kiss OM at her age, suggesting how unattractive he is. All this put a huge smile on my dial.
He is tight with his money (does not pay for anything), did not buy DD a birthday present, even though they have been dating for 11 months, and does nothing special for W (like I used to).
I think this is great for W to understand exactly how brown the grass really is on the other side.
SIL (W's twin) gave me a big hug and kiss after the party, and told me how everyone in her family love and miss me so much. And that she wants me over to her place more often, minus W (as I have always gotten on really well with her and her husband). She also told me that she wanted to call me later to tell me a few things????????
I asked her "All bad?", and she said "Not bad?". So I wonder what her and W were talking about at the party?
W thanked me for organising and paying for a wonderful party, and for organising all the goodie bags for the kids etc etc. It sounded sincere, so that made me feel good.
I am off to a mates house to watch DVDs and have some Thai food, whilst DD is going to spend the rest of Sun evening with W (and poss with OM).
Sorry for the ramblings, but possibly things may be coming to a head????
Hope you all have had an excellent weekend, Lotsa luv, AndyV
