Larry, On Gracey's thread you talked about how much company you son is to you. I too don't know what I would do without my 16 yr old daughter.
You also talked about the immorality of adultery. In my H's case he would sneak over to the OW's house who happened to by his secretary who was going through a divorce. He would wait until the 8yr old son was in bed to go over there. The son's room was right across the hall from her room! She admitted this in court during the custody trial. She still got custody of the boy!
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