That is so sad. I fear this is my H's predicament as well. Well, partly. He has sacrificed his "freedom" and can no longer "pursue his interests".

Morgan, doesn't OW have a son? How does your H handle that obligation? Does OW have the same attitude re: her son?

Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9