gracey - Seems like your twins help you keep your mind off what a jerk your H has been. My 14 year-old son decided to live with me the first time my wife had the OM stay overnight (in our bed, down the hall from our children), He hates the OM and wants as little to do with his mom as possible. That last part is eating her up inside, because you can replace an H but you can't replace a son. Anyway, I'm grateful to have him. We get to laugh at the raunchy comedians on cable and watch football together. It would be pretty lonely in this apartment without him.
Isn't it amazing how amoral WAS's in affairs are? As I've often said, they are like drug-addicted psychopaths.
You're farther along than I am at accepting and detaching. Way to go!
LL
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