Still Frustrated-but moving ahead

[GainingStrength]

{{{Penny}}} - I'm about where you are in the D process, so I understand what you're feeling. Also, we both have spouses in MLC. Re your H, seems that every WAS in an A says something to the effect that, "[OP] didn't break up our marriage, you and I did." Sorry, but that's utter bulls**t! If they didn't have the euphoria from the OP, they wouldn't have the motivation to go for the big D. You need to separate from him, give yourself space, and focus on GALing. Only then will time be on your side. It ain't over til it's over (and even then it's not over). In the end, he'll find that he won't be able to throw away 28 years that easy.

In addition, Yoyo is right about the OW. Let him get a full dose of her. He'll find out.

Stay strong, work on yourself, and give it time!

LL