thanks all.

I did talk to 2 different lawyers last spring, and know pretty much what I would get if we went with a standard divorce. if I'm going to go thur mediation, i want a better deal, simple as that.

going to give it a lot of thought, that's for sure.

mark, my h is in sales, too, and boy, he's a crappy deal closer, isn't he? who knows, maybe this will sharpen his skills. but he sure wanted the sale made for him, he doesn't want to do it, certainly not without a lot of resentment. he actually yelled at me that once again he's the one making the tough choice.

f-er

care, too tired to talk, just talked myself out to my friend and my therapist. I'm exhausted, but I appreciate the offer. I really do. I may still give you a call tomorrow if you are around, or this week if that is better.

thanks to all of you for thinking of me. I swear I pictured you all in my corner. It helped.


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher