I hope you're enjoying the weekend so far. Your thread moves along so quickly that I figured I better get current before I've missed a couple pages of posts.
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But if he were serious, I'd have to give it a shot. Otherwise I'd be doing the same thing I'm so disappointed in him for doing: giving up without giving it the effort we (and the kids) deserve.
This is probably the mindset of many/most of the LBS's here, I know it's mine.
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He told me that a friend told him last night, look, you're going to be miserable for a while, so embrace it, go through it, and deal. The same friend told me later that he told H not to "burn his bridges." Ha
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Yeah, it prolly really helps with your H's confusion having pal's like that to offer what looks like conflicting advice.
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I woke up feeling pretty bad; isn't it funny how that happens? I guess there's still some anger there (ya think?)
It's difficult to not feel bad in a sitch where it appears that with some/a lot of effort it might be turned around. Could also have to do with your dream-don't ya just love the ones where you're out of control & can't stop it?
