Does that make it harder knowing that he philandered before he settled on a mistress? So, if the "source" is correct, the A is going down the tubes as we all knew it eventually would. That would explain H trying to feel you out.
Now the ball is in your court, dear MK. You just said you will always love your H. Do you love him enough to create that safe path home? Do you have enough in your love bank to sustain you through the next battle? Or are you ready to move on with your new life? You will be blessed no matter what you choose.
Your mother is a wise woman. I think your sitch needs more time. Things are changing. Wait til the dust settles before you make any real choices.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9