Hi Dave,

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( remembering this is the issue that was the cause of a wee backslide the other day ) . I said of course and we carried on talking about other things.
I realy have got to the stage where I dont care what she does , all I need to know is when D will be staying at her place.
Fact is I dont trust her and although I sometimes enjoy her company I have strangely no desire to know what she is up to.


Such a great place to get to, one that I'm fortunate to have gotten to myself in the last few days.
It does make interactions much more relaxing & prevents future backslides, as most of them revolve around what they might be up to, huh!





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She seemed a bit uneasy and perhaps has spotted my shift in the way I feel because now she is being super nice


Bizarro world again, just exchange your W for my H and we're right on track.

I plan on staying backed off also & enjoy the shift. Interesting to observe, isn't it?

L&L,

Sunny \:\)


M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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