One day at a time, #3

[nephartiti]

He won't take them to Cali. People in Lala Land don't want to take care of kids. His only motive would be to spite you.

I went through this with my H. We had to have several safe interaxtions by phone and in person before he would be at hte house with me. Act As If. Ask when he would like to, and try to be accommodating. He is the father of these children. He loves them and they need time with him. You and I are suspicious by nature. You have to try and trust.