Time for healing without closing the door

[Bill_S]

Hi cmc,

....I'll be left on the rubbish pile of damaged goods because I'll be suspicious of all appealing men and disdainful towards those that come across as desparate and/or needy

First of all I really dont see that happening...being suspicious. You ARE far to smart to do that. You will just be more careful and you will take things slower...thats all.You have begun to see the dynamic between you two, you recognize how you have reacted,being clingy etc and you WANT to be happy. Sounds like a recipe for finding a happy life. If you move on without him you will take what youve learned and make better choices. Just like me !

Seems like we have the same dynamic as you...just reversed. Cant comment just yet on your sitch but I dont doubt for a second your strength.

REMEMBER....if someone asks you to be a doormat..JUST SAY NO!