Mrs. H, Eventually the feeding frenzy will cease. They will need to come back to the real world and business as usual has to go on. When they are together, the outside world ceases to exist, i.e., they are in another world, responsibilities, cares, bills, etc. are put on the back burner. Eventually reality will set in.
It's very true that the less you say about the ow to him or anyone else, the sooner the rose colored glasses will be removed. Remember, the more you talk about her to him, the more he's apt to defend her and be there as her best bud. They are in the rescue mode and want to be their all to these other people.
Annoying habits will come to light, for they can not remain the a-one perfect person for a long time. Their flaws will come to the surface the warts and moles and cracks in the personality will begin to show. For some, it takes a short time, others a long time, but it will happen. Their house can not withstand the sand of lies that it is built on for a very long time. We just have to be patient and allow nature to take its course.
