Snodderly, this post that you wrote to Angelica is so well said. It should be in the resources thread.
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having fun is what they are looking for in the "married" spouse that they are w/at that time.
This is true. From what I have heard, my H and her act like two teenagers when they are together. It's all about having fun. My H even said this to my boys, that having fun is the most important thing.
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The mlcers are looking for a pal, someone to pal around w/to have fun, spend money and lash out at the world.
Yes, yes, and yes!
What concerns me is the fact that my H and her do so many hobbies together. He has said that they have a lot in common. What if they always feed off each other's needs? Do you think that can happen with my H and ow?
