Morgan, I hope things are going well. I thought about you while I was at the book store today. I saw the "Crucial Conversations" book and there is another one that builds on it called "Crucial Confrontations: tools for resolving broken promises, violated expectations, and bad behavior.
I did not realize these are books from the author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. The bonus was that they were in the Business Management section of the book store so my H did not roll his eyes at me buying yet another "relationship book".
Thinking of you and sending prayers and good wishes.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011